Reflections & Practical Tips

Short reflections and encouraging lessons to help you apply the 12 principles of Lasting Love in daily life.

Marriage Is a Journey, Not a Destination

Marriage is often portrayed in society as a goal—something to achieve. But the truth is, marriage is far more than a milestone. It’s a journey, an ongoing adventure that requires attention, effort, and compassion every single day. As relationship counselor John Hewett often reminds his clients, “Love isn’t a prize you win; it’s a choice you make, repeatedly.

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How Gratitude Brings Joy Back into Your Relationship

Gratitude is one of the simplest, yet most powerful, ways to bring joy back into a relationship. It shifts our focus from what’s missing to what’s already good. In a world that often highlights flaws and disappointments, pausing to appreciate your partner can renew warmth, patience, and connection.

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